The Surprising Generation Gap in Today's Real Estate Market
April 22, 2025
April 22, 2025
I've been noticing something fascinating at our open houses lately. I'll put a spacious 4- or 5-bedroom colonial on the market, fully expecting to see young families walk through, imagining their kids playing in the backyard. And while I do see plenty of those families, I'm increasingly surprised by who actually ends up buying these homes: retired couples with cash offers.
It might seem counterintuitive – why would a retired couple want more space than they need? But after talking with these buyers, I've discovered several interesting motivations:
The Dream House They Never Had: Many Baby Boomers are finally buying the home they always wanted but couldn't afford while raising their families. Even if it's no longer practical, they're making that lifelong dream a reality.
Cash Is King: With more financial resources than their younger counterparts, these buyers often come in with all-cash offers, making them extremely competitive in our current market.
Space for Family Visits: They're buying larger homes to host their children and grandchildren during holidays and summer visits.
Meanwhile, younger buyers are navigating a tougher landscape:
They've rented for so long that they're often less open to renovation projects
They've become desensitized to "once-in-a-lifetime" events (we've had quite a few recently!)
They're more realistic about size and amenities but extremely particular about condition
Here's what I find particularly interesting: younger buyers approach home inspections like they're searching symptoms on WebMD – every minor issue feels catastrophic. They want move-in ready homes and have little patience for problems.
Right now, we're seeing:
Lower showing activity than last year (20 showings instead of 100)
Fewer offers overall (3-5 instead of 20)
BUT stronger, more competitive offers than we saw a year ago
This creates an interesting dynamic where there's less margin for error. If you're selling, you need to get everything right because you can't afford to lose even one potential offer.
You're in a strong position, especially if you can make a cash offer. But consider your long-term needs carefully – that dream house should also be practical for your lifestyle.
Focus on being financially prepared and work with an agent who can help you navigate inspections realistically. Not every issue is a deal-breaker, and understanding which problems are minor can give you an edge.
Price, condition, and location matter more than ever. Properties that are move-in ready command premium prices, and proper staging can make the difference between a good offer and a great one.
I often get asked, "Should I wait for the market to change?" My answer is always the same: we know what the market is now, but we don't know what it will be later. With economic uncertainty, fluctuating interest rates, and ongoing talks of recession, waiting for the "perfect" time might mean missing your opportunity entirely.
As I tell my clients: in an uncertain world, if you've found a good opportunity today, it's usually wise to take it.
After three generations in real estate, we’ve seen markets change countless times. But one thing remains constant: there's never a perfect time to buy or sell – only the right time for you. Whether you're a Boomer looking to finally buy that dream home or a Millennial ready to stop renting, the key is working with someone who understands your specific needs and can guide you through today's unique market challenges.